Self harm help
If you are self-harming, there is help available and it is important to get the support you need.
Many young people who self-harm do so privately away from other people and do not want to talk to other people about it, sometimes for fear of how people will react, thinking that they might not understand. If you can talk to someone, this may help how you are feeling.
People to talk to
- Auntie/uncle or other relative
- Parents' friend
- Brother or sister
- School nurse
- Youth Worker
If you don’t feel like you can confide in anyone, then go and talk to your GP and seek medical help.
Talk to your GP
Talk to your GP about how you feel and any other issues you may have as well as the self-harm for example if you are being bullied or if you are feeling anxious or depressed as it may be that tackling the underlying issues will help you to cope with problems without self-harming. If your GP is dismissive or unhelpful you have a right to change GPs. But your GP can help and may offer you a range of support. The GP may offer counselling or therapy including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy which looks at understanding your thoughts and behaviour. You may also be referred to child and adolescent mental health services (CAMHS) for an assessment, or sent to hospital for treatment.
Getting professional help
Nice is the National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence and provides guidance on medical issues. Nice guidance has been produced on the care you should expect to receive from healthcare professionals if you are seeking help around self-harm.
- You should be treated with dignity and respect.
- Any injuries you have should be treated straight away and not left because you harmed yourself.
- If you go to hospital, you should be seen by a doctor or nurse who is trained to work with children and young people who self-harm, in a special area set aside for children and young people.
- If you have to stay at the hospital then you stay in a paediatric (children’s) ward or an adolescent paediatric unit for over 14s and be checked by someone who is properly trained the following day.
- When you are in hospital, someone from the Child and Adolescent Mental Health Service (CAMHS) team should carry out an assessment and ask you about how you are and look at any problems you think you have or might have when you go home.
- Young people who have self-harmed several times may be offered group psychotherapy - a chance to talk through your problems with other young people.
The next section has further sources of information about self-harm.