getting help

Though self-harm is rarely a failed suicide attempt, it is a sign that the person doing it is coping with very difficult feelings, and probably needs some help. Self-injury can also lead to infection, permanent damage and even accidental death. It is therefore important to seek professional advice if your child is self-harming.

Start by going to see your GP. You can see the GP yourself if your child does not want to go. You should also ask your GP what to do if your child's cuts get infected. Your GP may refer you and your child to Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS).

You can also look for counselling for your child. You do not need to see the GP first for many youth counselling services.

If you are worried your child is putting their life at risk by self-harming, call 999 or take them to A&E if possible.

NHS advice on what to do in an emergency

Phone YoungMinds Parents' Helpline for more information about how to help your child and see further info for organisations who can help support you and your child.