About abuse
Child abuse can be physical, sexual or emotional. Neglect – not looking after a child or keeping them healthy - is also abuse. Children can be abused by siblings or other children, as well as adults. Abuse can have lasting and detrimental effects and many children who are abused will need a lot of support.
Anyone who is suffering abuse or who knows a baby, child or young person who is being abused should contact either the police or social services, who should investigate and protect the victim.
Abuse can cause low self-esteem, anxiety, depression and behavioural problems. Abused children may have difficulties relating to their peers and to other adults, and their psychological and educational development may be affected.
For those who have been particularly disturbed by their experiences it can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder, serious depression or anxiety disorders. For some it can also lead to longer-term sexual and relationship problems.
Some particular problems experienced by children who have or are being abused include:
- Upsetting thoughts and memories
- Sleeping difficulties
- Sexualised behaviour inappropriate for their age
- Irritable
- Bed wetting
- Repeated urinary tract infections (caused by sexual abuse)
- Eating problems
- Social withdrawal
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Self-harming
- Poor concentration.
Some children do not feel able to disclose the abuse they have suffered for a long time, and many find it extremely difficult to talk about, but they are very likely to need support.