Abuse and neglect
Abuse of the power relationship between children and adults can occur in different ways. It can be physical, sexual and emotional, and it can also result from severe neglect. Abuse can have lasting and detrimental effects, and many children who are abused will require a lot of support.
Girls are two to three times more likely to be abused than boys, but boys do get abused too. Some children also suffer abuse by their peers, siblings or other young people.
Anyone who is suffering abuse or who knows a baby, child or young person who is being abused should contact either the Police or Social Services Child Protection Team, to investigate and protect the victim.
Abuse can cause low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, behavioural problems and problems with body-image. Children who have been abused may have difficulties relating to their peers and to other adults, and their psychological and educational development may be affected.
For those who have been particularly disturbed by their experiences it can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder, serious depression or anxiety disorders. For some it can also lead to longer-term sexual and relationship problems.
Some particular problems experienced by children who have or are being abused include:
- Upsetting thoughts and memories
- Sleeping difficulties
- Sexualised behaviour inappropriate for their age
- Irritability
- Bed wetting
- Repeated urinary tract infections (caused by sexual abuse)
- Eating problems
- Social withdrawal
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Self-harming
- Poor concentration
Some children do not feel able to disclose the abuse they have suffered for a long time, and many find it extremely difficult to talk about, but they are very likely to need support.
Depending on the age of the child, this help may be better given some time after the abuse has occurred, but it is important that the young person knows how to access help when they feel ready to use it.
The Parents Information Service is available to discuss your concerns if you think your child has emotional problems following abuse.
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