Self injury
Self-harm, or self-injury, describes a wide range of things people deliberately do to themselves that appear to be harmful but usually do not kill them. Self-harm is not usually a failed attempt at suicide, but it can still be very hard for parents or carers.
Cutting the arms or the back of the legs with a razor or knife is the most common form of self-harm, but self-harm can take many forms, including burning, biting, hitting or taking overdoses.
A young person may self-harm to help them cope with negative feelings, to feel more in control or to punish themselves. It can be a way of relieving overwhelming feelings that build up inside, when they feel isolated, angry, guilty or desperate.
Though self-harm is rarely a failed suicide attempt, it can lead to infection, permanent damage and even accidental death. It is therefore important to seek professional advice if your child is self-harming.
Help from YoungMinds
YoungMinds publications that can help with concerns about phobias
Visit our publications section
YoungMinds Parents Information Service can offer further advice on self-harm
Find out more about the Parents Information Service
Call us on 0800 018 2138
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Useful websites
National self harm network
The Samaritans
Young people and self-harm information resource
Bristol crisis service for women

