These include moving into a new class, going to secondary school and moving to a new area. Lots of children and young people will also experience family changes like divorce or separation, having a new step-parent or sibling, or going through bereavement.
If your child is struggling to cope with a change, big or small, have a look at the practical tips we've got on this page. These can help you to feel more confident about supporting them.
Some changes can be exciting. But others can be stressful, worrying and upsetting. Change can be more difficult when a young person:
A child or young person may also find change more difficult if they are already struggling with other things, such as anxiety, low-mood, problems at school or self-esteem issues.
You know your child better than anybody else. Trust your instincts as a parent or carer if you notice changes in your child's behaviour that feel worrying. Remember that it’s important to act on warning signs if you do start to feel concerned.
Catherine, a volunteer on our Parents Helpline, shares her tips:
If you do see signs that are worrying you, it’s really important to try to talk to your child. Keep communicating with them in any way you can. This could be hugging, listening to them or texting. Just focus on keeping the line of communication open.
You can find more tips on talking to your child in our guide for parents.
As a parent, be part of the solution. There are a number of things you can do to support your child, whether that be helping them plan, problem-solve or develop a sense of hope for the future.
Jo, our Head of Parent Services, gives her top tips:
If your child is experiencing problems or going through significant change, it’s important that you can be an anchor for them.
Jo, our Head of Parent Services, gives her top tips:
Watch this video from M&S and YoungMinds to hear more about coping with change. We discuss the challenges young people face when getting exam results, returning to school and starting college or university.
While we take care to ensure that the organisations we signpost to provide high quality information and advice, we cannot take responsibility for any specific pieces of advice they may offer. We encourage parents and carers to always explore the website of a linked service or organisation to understand who they are and what support they offer before engaging with them.
We support parents and carers who are concerned about their child or young person's mental health. We can provide detailed information and advice, emotional support and signposting.
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Provides information and support around family issues, as well as longer-term help through Befrienders and Counsellors.
Provides information about local counselling and advice services for young people aged 11-25.
Put in your location and what you need help with into their 'Find help' search, and see what services are available in your area.
If you’re under 19 you can confidentially call, chat online or email about any problem big or small.
Sign up for a free Childline locker (real name or email address not needed) to use their free 1-2-1 counsellor chat and email support service.
Can provide a BSL interpreter if you are deaf or hearing-impaired.
Hosts online message boards where you can share your experiences, have fun and get support from other young people in similar situations.
Provides information, support and advice for anyone struggling with anxiety. Please note that this organisation offers paid-for services, including therapy and an advice line.
Formerly known as MeeToo. A free app for teenagers (11+) providing resources and a fully-moderated community where you can share your problems, get support and help other people too.
Can be downloaded from Google Play or App Store.
A virtual friend for 8-11 year olds and their parents that helps families think about feelings and talk about difficult topics. Download the app.
Provides faith and culturally sensitive support for young Muslims.
Online chat service available during opening hours.
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